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the trailing spouse
by Umesh admin

The Trailing Spouse

Divorce can often escalate into an incredibly complex and emotionally charged situation. In the case of expat divorces it can become particularly fraught with feelings of betrayal or bitterness due to the unique scenario that such divorces present.

In expat divorces, the party who has relocated to allow their spouse to further their career often has fundamentally different circumstances, concerns and needs from the other party.

It is often the case that the wife relocates for the sake of her husband’s career only to find herself facing a bigger culture shock than expected, losing her sense of identity in the face of being unable to find employment due to non-transferable skills as well as facing the loss of her social support networks.

When it comes to issues regarding the relocation of children, it is not uncommon that the court will decide for the child to remain in the country he/she was brought up in on grounds of ensuring the child’s benefits are prioritised —which unfortunately goes against the wishes of the trailing spouse on top of other issues she may be facing.

It is not difficult to see why expat divorces may seem particularly skewed against the benefit of trailing spouses when they wish to return home but are unwilling to give up close contact with their children.

This often leads to the sentiment that lawyers and subsequently courts fail to sufficiently appreciate the extent of the trailing spouse’s plight or that they are seen as being difficult and uncaring.

It is therefore important for such trailing spouses to seek legal help from experienced expat divorce lawyers with the capacity to sufficiently appreciate the situation they are in.

Despite the seemingly unsolvable conundrum in addressing such expat divorce cases, there is a compromise solution proposed by matrimonial strategist Jeremy D. Morley which includes the following:

  • Authorizing the wife to relocate with the children once specific conditions have been fulfilled;
  • Requiring extremely generous visitation of children with the husband
  • Requiring daily Internet contact, with webcams, between husband and child
  • Providing for joint decision-making between for all important matters affecting the children
  • Requiring the wife to obtain an order from the court in her home country that mirrors the terms of the order in husband’s jurisdiction, that acknowledges that the court in the husband’s jurisdiction has continuing exclusive jurisdiction concerning all matters as to the children’s custody and visitation, and requiring the appropriate authorities in the wife’s home country to enforce such orders
  • Imposing a significant penalty on the wife if she fails to comply with the order, including a severe financial penalty.

Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.

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Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.
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Articles, Divorce EligibilityFebruary 1, 20170 comments
expat divorce advantage
by Umesh admin

Singapore Expat Divorce – Is It Advantageous For You To File For Divorce In Singapore?

For expats considering getting a divorce there may be various considerations in deciding whether doing so in Singapore will be advantageous in terms of cost or placing you in a favourable position in the division of matrimonial assets. The following information seeks to address certain questions one may have in mind when deciding to file for divorce in Singapore.

Eligibility:

Not all divorce cases will be heard by the Singapore court. One must meet the following criteria:

  1. Either spouse is domiciled in Singapore or habitually resident in Singapore for 3 or more years
  2. You have been married for more than 3 years
  3. You can show that the marriage has broken down irretrievably

Duration:a

Obtaining an Interim Judgment can take around 5 to 6 months following which there is a mandatory 3-month period before the Final Judgment can be granted.

Cost:

Whilst the complexity of the case can affect costs, you may stand to gain from favourable exchange rates. Furthermore, Singapore uses a fused legal system such that you will be charged only 1 set of legal fees compared to 2 sets in other countries (e.g. UK with the barristers and solicitors system). In contested cases, it should be noted that mediation is compulsory in Singapore which may prove to be more cost effective should mediation be successful between you and your spouse.

Matrimonial Assets:

Different countries have varying ways of dividing matrimonial assets. In Singapore, the ratio of division is determined by factors such as indirect and direct contributions to the accumulation of assets, the needs of parties involved, agreements made by parties involved and so on. Beyond determining if filing for divorce in Singapore will be favourable for you in terms of division of matrimonial assets, it is important to ensure that the divorce judgment obtained in Singapore can be enforced in countries where the assets are owned. It is therefore essential that you contact a good international divorce lawyer to work out such details.

If you need legal advice before proceeding to divorce, you should engage a family law specialist. GJC Law has highly experienced lawyers who have dealt with a wide range of divorce matters. Should you wish to schedule a free initial consultation with us, please contact GJC Law at 6337 0469, or email consult@gjclaw.com.sg.

Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.

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Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.
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Articles, Divorce EligibilityJanuary 31, 20170 comments
seperation under one roof
by Umesh admin

Separation Under One Roof

Separation under one roof is when you and your spouse separate but continue living in the same home.

If you and your spouse have lived in the same home during part or all of the required 3 years separation period, you need to provide evidence of this to the Court.

Under Singapore law you and your spouse may live together under the same roof but need to show the following:

  • a change in sleeping arrangements between you and your spouse
  • reduction in shared activities or family outings
  • decline in performing household duties for each other
  • financial independence; for example, separate bank accounts, and
  • other evidence to show that the marriage has broken down; for example, notifying family and friends of your separation.

Further to this, separating couples may choose to enter into a Deed of Separation if they wish to live separate lives before applying for divorce.

A Deed of Separation sets out the date on which parties decide to separate, and the terms on which they shall organise their affairs during this period of separation.

If you have any questions, please call Ms James on 6337-0469 or email her, she will do her best to give you immediate free advice on the divorce process in Singapore so that you can put your mind at ease and alert you as to what immediate steps should be taken.

Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.

Call Us at +65 6337 0469
Mail us on consult@gjclaw.com.sg
Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.
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Articles, Divorce EligibilityMarch 6, 20160 comments
considering divorce in singapore
by Umesh admin

Considering Your Divorce In Singapore?

It is often very difficult to give a straightforward answer as to what happens in an international divorce case. Many questions come to mind and they need to be addressed immediately.

 – So what happens if your marriage breaks down in Singapore?
 – Can you return to your home country with the children?
 – Would the financial settlement favour you in Singapore or back home?

Divorce is not something one would plan whilst living overseas but if it is inevitable, then you need to equip yourself with as much information as you can on the divorce processes both in Singapore and in your home country.

When it comes to Finances (division of assets and maintenance), Singapore Courts operate on the principle of what is ‘just and equitable’ and look at the direct and indirect contributions of each party towards the marriage. Pre-marital assets are generally not seen as joint assets. Prenuptial agreements are binding only the financial aspects of a marriage. The Singapore Courts have the power to look into any agreements entered between parties before giving their endorsement or otherwise.

When it comes to Children matters, custody care and control and access are issues to be dealt with. Parties are encouraged to do what is in the best interest of the children. It is all about the children’s welfare being the paramount interest and not of the parties.

As a family lawyer, I have handled many international divorces over my 20-year legal career. If you have any questions, please call me on 6337-0469 or email me, I will do my best to give you immediate free advice on the process so that you can put your mind at ease and alert you as to what immediate steps should be taken. You can also make an appointment to see me.

Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.

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Articles, Divorce EligibilityFebruary 17, 20160 comments
divorce legibility
by Umesh admin

Foreign Marriage Jurisdiction

Foreign marriage jurisdiction

If you started divorce proceedings in Singapore, and your spouse started proceedings in a different country (or vice versa), the courts must then decide which country the divorce will take place in: this is known as the forum conveniens.

Spiliada test

The forum conveniens is decided upon by a two-stage test. This test was first created by Lord Goff, in the case of Spiliada Maritime Corp v Cansulex Ltd:

Stage one: The party seeking the stay (ie, the Husband) must show that there is another available forum that is clearly or distinctly more appropriate than Singapore to determine the dispute. The court will take into consideration connecting factors, such as factors affecting convenience or expense (eg, availability of witnesses), the law governing the transaction and the places where the parties reside or carry on business.

Stage two: If there is another forum which is more appropriate, the court will ordinarily grant a stay, unless there are special circumstances by reason of which justice requires that a stay should nevertheless be refused. At this stage, the burden shifts to the plaintiff to show such special circumstances.”

In stage one, it is the burden of the person who disagrees with the country to prove:

  1. What other country is a better place to decide the divorce
  2. Why the other country is better (by drawing ‘connecting factors’ between the divorcing parties and the ‘better’ country)

If the other party disagrees, the onus is on them to prove why there are special circumstances why the current country (and not the ‘better’ one) should be used.

Connecting Factors:

Below are some examples of ‘connecting factors’ that the court will take into account when disputing the forum conveniens:

  • Who submitted divorce proceedings in their country first
  • Which jurisdiction any prenuptials/court orders/other matters were decided in?
  • What is the cost of bringing/accommodating expert witnesses into the country
  • Which party will be more financially strained if the proceedings were carried out in the country not of their choosing?
  • Where and how the marriage was registered and lived
  • How the parties conducted their personal relationship as husband and wife
  • Where is the child most comfortable?
  • Where were the finances and assets held? (Where is the evidence located?)
  • What was the Citizenship of the parties and the child?
  • Which court is faster? (If its in best interests of child to have earlier determination)
  • Intentions of the parties for moving proceedings elsewhere
    • i.e. husband initially had no problems with Singapore court until he realized it was too slow for his taste
  • Connections of the parties to the countries (i.e. by birth, domicile, citizenship, etc.)
    • Also, whether the parties willingly severed their connection with any of the countries involved

The court places different emphasis on different factors – i.e. the nationality of the parties is of little significance, and the court prefers to look at where the parties chose to live, and where they consider home.

The intricacies of deciding forum conveniens can be difficult to grasp. Our Principal Partner and Matrimonial Law Specialist Ms Gloria James is able to advice on complicated jurisdictional cross-border matters. When family mediation fails, it is important to know which aspects of your family are important in the eyes of the court.

Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.

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Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.
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Articles, Divorce EligibilityAugust 29, 20150 comments
divorce legibility
by Umesh admin

What If I Do Not Satisfy The 3 Years’ Residency, Can I Divorce?

You can’t unless you can show the intention to be domiciled in Singapore, ie to make Singapore your home and to live here, period. You need to satisfy the test as stated in the case of (2005) SGDC80 – DIDIER VON DANIKEN v SANAA VON DANIKERN BORN ELKOLALY, reference to Wong Phui Lun Joseph v Yeoh Loon Goik (1978) 1 MLJ 236.

ie domicile of choice – 2 elements to be shown:

(a)  Fact of residence

(b)  Fact of intention of permanent or indefinite residence

Basically, you need to show you treat Singapore as your home. The onus is on you to prove that you have acquired Singapore domicile. Evidence has to be shown that there is no contingency plan to return to your home country, that you have cut links with your home country, taken a long term job in Singapore, shifted assets to Singapore, that you are keeping cash in bank here in Singapore and not overseas, taken attained Permanent Residency in Singapore or applied for Singapore Citizenship. Basically to show you treat Singapore as a home.

Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.

Call Us at +65 6337 0469
Mail us on consult@gjclaw.com.sg
Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.
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Articles, Divorce EligibilityJune 3, 20150 comments
marriage rule bar
by Umesh admin

Exception to the “3 Year Marriage Bar Rule”

The exceptions to this rule are where you are able to show the court that you have suffered exceptional hardship or that there is  exceptional depravity on the part of your spouse.

To rely on these exceptions, you would have to make an application to the court. Where the court is satisfied with your application, it would grant leave for you to file for divorce.

It is a further requirement that either spouse must have:

  • treated Singapore as their permanent place of residence at the start of the divorce proceedings, or
  • resided in Singapore for at least 3 years immediately before the start of divorce proceedings.

What Constitutes Exceptional Hardship and Exceptional Depravity?

Exceptional hardship is found when the problems in the marriage is quite out of the ordinary and they are more than what an ordinary person should reasonably be asked to bear (Ng Kee Shee).

However, do note that the exception is not easily made out. In the recent 2014 case of Tan Yan Ling Kyna v Chan Wei Zhong Terence, Choo Han Teck J held that even if one party’s alleged account of his or her spouse’s abusive behavior were to be accepted, there still might not be sufficient cause to make out a case of “exceptional hardship”. This is because there are alternative remedies and relief in cases of abuse such as applications for a personal protection order, or for the aggrieved party to leave the other party (i.e. to live separately).

As mentioned above, Choo Han Teck J further added that the 3-year moratorium is intended to hold out the hope of reconciliation and that even in extreme cases of abuse, the abuser may see the error of his or her ways and seek reconciliation.

Other considerations before the court allows your application

Lastly, if you are an expat seeking a divorce in Singapore and you and your spouse have children, under section 94 of the Singapore Women’s Charter, in determining any such application, the court would also have regard to the interest of the child or children to your marriage and consider whether there is a reasonable probability of reconciliation between you and your spouse before the expiration of 3 years.

The court may also refer the differences between you and your spouse to a Conciliation Officer so that reconciliation between you and your spouse might be affected.

At Gloria James-Civetta & Co, we offer a consultation with one of our LAWYERS, who will explain the divorce process and assess whether as an expat, you meet the requirements to file for divorce in Singapore.

Our International Divorce Lawyers will explain the steps involved when considering a Singapore divorce and advise on your rights and options.
Call Us at +65 6337 0469
Mail us on consult@gjclaw.com.sg

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Articles, Divorce EligibilityJune 3, 20150 comments
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